
The Story Frame
Tips and tricks in bite-sized posts to help you tell your story
Losing My Mind With a Pink Disney Brush in My Hand
Or how simple parenting acts can drive you insane (2/3)
I finally picked up my daughter and took her to her room while being kicked and punched. I soothed her and tried to calm her down before starting again. On the outside, I look calm, but I'm feeling frustrated on the side. I'm feeling frustr...
by Carlos Garbiras —
Apr 02, 2025
cultural
parenting
satire
Points of Entry and Tactical Storytelling
Editing and Honing the Universal in Your Story
I knew early on in my life I wanted to be a writer. Actually, I wanted to be a reader. I loved reading. But at that time, I didn't think you could get paid for that. So, I switch my dream career from reader to writer.Â
I wrote a lot during those tim...
by Carlos Garbiras —
Apr 01, 2025
editing
productivity
storytelling
writing
The Hairbrushing Vortex
Or how simple parenting acts can drive you insane
I heard the shouting, "I either brush your hair, or I cut your hair." And I thought, "Who is this asshole talking out of my mouth?"
Before I had kids, I believed I didn't need Buddhism because I embodied the dharma. I was Buddha reincarnated, the...
Mar 31, 2025
It's Time to Wake Up Early... Tips on Developing a Morning Routine
Free Memoir Writing Workshop Details At The End of Email
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My favorite season of the year is here.
Spring.
This is when the New Year should happen. This is when the New Year used to happen until the adoption of the Gregorian Calendar.
"April Fools' Day" was created as a holiday meant to mock and...
by Carlos Garbiras —
Mar 25, 2025
habits
productivity
writing
Worried About Including Others in Your Essay? Ask Yourself These 4 Questions
Most of the time, I'm not thinking about whether or not I'm going to include someone in a story because when I do, it will end up being playful and in good nature.
But when an essay is a little more thorny or raw, and I feel uncomfortable about what I have to say about a person, I use a handful o...
Mar 20, 2025
creativity
editing
storytelling
writing
"How Much Can I Share? And What Happens When My Family And Friends Read My Stories About Them? "
TL;DR: it's complicated.
Tonight, I will be hosting my weekly free memoir writing workshop. Find details at the end of the email.
Last week, I hosted my free "Memoir Writing Workshop," and an attendee asked, "How much can I share about others in my stories?"
This is a difficult question to answe...
Mar 18, 2025
Invisible Art: How Storytelling Can Sell the Nonexistent
Oh, man. What is this word that I'm looking for?
What did this MirĂł painting evoked in me?
This painting is so...
So...
Oh, I know.
So dumb!
What a fucking dumb painting?
Listen, I have to admit to you. Sometimes, what critics call high art is just above my limited intelligence.
This canvas, whic...
by Carlos Garbiras —
Mar 13, 2025
creativity
editing
productivity
storytelling
writing
What Miro's Museum Taught Me About Storytelling in Art
Next week, I'm hosting a monthly in-person storytelling circle in Petaluma at Grand Central Coffee Shop. I'm producing this show with two friends, and one of them invited me to present it to a group of artists she guides through Julia Cameron's The Artist's Way.
I thought, "I can pitch an event a...
Mar 11, 2025
artmaking
creativity
productivity
storytelling
writing
Two Misconceptions About Storytelling (Free Storytelling Workshop Tonight)
I recently bought Mike Sacks' "And Here is the Kicker," and when I added it to my humor writing collection on Kindle, I saw that this collection has become quite sizable.
I have been reading on writing and humor writing for over ten years. I especially like interviews with comedic writers because...
Mar 07, 2025
editing
productivity
storytelling
writing
My First Facebook Live Was A Terrible, Horrible Disaster...
And I'm doing it again!
Five minutes before my Facebook Live started, I realized I had already gotten myself into my pajamas. So I quickly ran to my closet to get a sweater to look presentable from the waist up.
I sat at my computer. I needed to run the workshop from there because I was showing ...
Mar 04, 2025
creativity
editing
productivity
storytelling
writing
Is This Story True? Join Me Tonight at Let's Talk (Story-)Shop
When I perform at story slams, I typically have people approach me after the show and ask me if my story is real.
The thing about most story slams is that the stories you tell need to be real. Some people choose to make up stuff.
I don't.
Life is plenty bizarre without any help from me.
Then they...
Feb 27, 2025
coaching
creativity
editing
productivity
storytelling
structure
writing
The Winter Funk Finally Got to You: 4 Tips To Get Back to Writing When You Don’t Feel Like It
There is a funk going around, isn’t there?
In almost every conversation I am having, people are feeling a bit down.
Maybe it is the fact that even after making a conscious effort not to follow politics, Musk and Trump still manage to do something outrageous that can pierce your information barrie...
Feb 25, 2025
creativity
editing
productivity
storytelling
writing
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